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Linda G's avatar

In all the discussions of abortion laws no one ever mentions the male's consequences for getting someone pregnant. Females are punished for having sex and "getting pregnant"... and now will be forced to give birth - effectively ending their school, work, career, family &/or life plans, and mental health - if this was something they did not want to do for good reason. Yet men and boys go scott free - walk away with no responsibility (who is going to enforce child support from a 17 year old deadbeat dad?) Why isn't there a law that requires any male who gets a female pregnant to quit school or give up any other plans so that they can work to support that unwanted baby until the child turns 18?... The situation for forced, unwanted pregnancy and birth should be just as harsh and miserable for the "father." If a couple has sex that results in pregnancy shouldn't the responsibility -- and the sacrifices needed -- be equally shared?

Or is patriarchy just too ingrained in America for people to even be discussing this as a necessary, fair, logical next step in the laws around pregnancy and birth? Of course a law like this will never happen here because we are so righteous about degrading and punishing women.

I don't even feel at this time that protesting in the streets is the right action to take for women. It would be just another way for society (men) to disrespect and humiliate and dismiss us, and deride our rights and our speaking our opinions as irrelevant.

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Jan Hemelstrand's avatar

Underlying the overturn of Roe is the desire to control women, to keep them “in their place;” therefore, improved sex education and access to birth control is not attractive because it would not serve this goal.

Clearly, the goal of SCOTUS is not preserving life, as is evidenced by the loosening of gun restrictions this week.

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